No means no. Least last time I checked. It sure as hell means no when I say it. It is a very powerful word. Respect what it can do.

Say no when you have good reason to and feel strongly about the wisdom of doing so. If you decide to say no, be emphatic about it and be prepared to stand behind it. If you’re not entirely sure you can, or will, give it some more thought. Your credibility is at stake.

Once you have answered no, do not waver unless a valid change of circumstance truly warrants revisiting your decision. Please note: A pouting mouth or puppy dog eyes do not qualify as such!

The only other (possibly) legit reason I can imagine for changing your mind would be your honest belief that you answered too hastily or were influenced by factors which, upon reflection, were not relevant.

Please do not say no only to change your mind because you are backed into a corner or pressed. Your word becomes instantly meaningless and you will get no respect. Do not allow yourself to be bullied.

I am not suggesting it will be easy to hold your ground. It may not be.  But you will be taking action based on long term benefits not short term relief.

If you are the one pushing someone who has said no to you, stop. Now. You may get what you want, but people will be pissed off at you and resent your methods.

And don’t even get me started on people who use scare tactics, guilt or threats in an attempt to change the mind of the naysayer.

No means no.

Doesn’t it?

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