So, I found this great site yesterday www.parentingwithdignity. If you care about trying to be the best parent you can be, check it out. Somehow, I came across this list, “showing that we care 100 ways”. http://www.parentingwithdignity.com/PWD/video_series/100_ways_we_care.htm

Take a quick look. When I scan the list, I see many things that come easily to me with my child like sending a love letter, asking their opinion, or apologizing if I’ve done something wrong. I see others like building things together that I need to be reminded of or make a little more effort with. All of them are worth doing for your child.

Now, peruse the list again with the image of your stepchildren in mind. Can you imagine yourself doing these same things for your step-child? How would you feel about it? Will you “show that you are excited to see them” with the same enthusiasm you have for your own child? Are you just as willing? Would it feel awkward?

Our partner’s/spouse’s kids are just as deserving of our shows of caring, but it may feel like a harder thing to do. And often it is. But it’s worth it. They are worth it. The list itself may require a little tweaking with stepchildren in mind but it is equally important (if not more) that we show our caring for them in similar ways. They too are children. Isn’t it our responsibility as adults in their life to show them caring, support, and encouragement every day just as we do for our own children?

Among the stresses and strains of daily life, it’s a big accomplishment to show our kids we care every day, day after day. It’s an even bigger one to show caring for kids who are not your own. Believe me, they know we don’t have to, which makes these acts even more meaningful. It can sometimes take a very big, conscious effort to do this. They deserve it and so do you.

How will you show a child you care today?

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